To the girl who wasn't sure
Look, I know you’re in that weird in-between phase. Like, you know you’re not the same person anymore, but you haven’t quite figured out who you are yet, either. And it’s frustrating. You’re probably wondering if you’re doing enough, or if you’re missing something. Or if you’re just... lost. But trust me, you’re not.
I get it, sometimes you feel like you’re not living up to what everyone expects of you. You don’t have the answers, and that’s okay. You’re still figuring it out. It’s hard when you feel like everyone around you is so sure of what they’re doing while you’re just floating through. But I want you to know that it’s fine to not have everything figured out yet. You’ll get there.
You’ll learn that it’s okay to not always be happy. And you’ll realize that the little things....your walks, cleaning your room, having a cup of coffee ....matter more than you think. It’s in those quiet moments that you’ll find your peace. You’re not weak for needing those moments; they’ll help you grow.
Stop trying to be someone you’re not. Stop comparing yourself. You don’t have to fit into the mold people want you to. You’re allowed to be different, to have your own pace. And yeah, it’s gonna take time. But you’ll learn that the only person you need to make proud is yourself.
You’re doing more than enough. You’re strong, even when you don’t feel like it. And the future? It’s gonna be okay. Trust me.
Take care of you. You’re gonna figure it out.
Love,
You from the future